People always think that what they want is money,
\nrelationships, and material possessions, but what they
\ntruly want is happiness. Wealth, health and relationships
\nare just the rewards of being happy. Happiness is a state
\nof vibration that is in harmony with the universe. As you
\nalready know, the same frequency vibrations tend to attract
\neach other, so the vibration of happiness is going to
\nattract more wealth, better relationships and better
\nhealth, since these things are going to add more happiness
\nto your life, and they are in the same vibration. If you go
\nafter money, you may not get it, but if you go after
\nhappiness, money will flow to you. The same applies to
\nrelationships and health.<\/p>\n
I believe the ultimate goal in life is to achieve a state
\nof well being, or we can simply say happiness.<\/p>\n
Is there an easier way to achieve happiness? The answer is
\nYes! and I am now going to show you how.<\/p>\n
I have learned one phrase from Dr Wayne Dyer, that I will
\nnever forget. The phrase is “How may I serve?”. Dr Dyer
\nsaid that before his seminars, he always meditates, and
\nrepeats the phrase as a mantra “How may I serve… How may
\nI serve?”. He never brings any notes with him, and when he
\nspeaks, the words just keep flowing to him. He knows
\nexactly what to say, and what to teach. Dr Wayne Dyer is
\none of my favourite role models. He has achieved great
\nsuccess in almost every area of his life. I believe the one
\nsingle most important element in Dr Wayne Dyer’s success is
\nthis mantra “How may I serve?”<\/p>\n
Ask yourself now “How may I serve?”. This is the key to
\nultimate happiness and fulfillment in life. I would like to
\nshare some of my own experience.<\/p>\n
The most enjoyable thing in my life at this stage is
\nwriting articles that can make a difference to the quality
\nof people’s lives. Whenever I finish writing an article, I
\nfeel positive energy throughout my body. I sometime get
\npuzzled myself! Where does this information come from? How
\ndo I write so many articles, having thousands of people
\nread my articles every week? I have finally realized the
\nsecret is within this phrase “How may I serve?”.<\/p>\n
Every time I write an article for my newsletter, I sit in
\nfront of my computer, and ask myself “How may I serve? How
\nmay I serve?”. Strangely, the ideas come, and I put my
\nfingers on the keyboard, and words just start flowing.<\/p>\n
I didn’t understand how this process works, until one day I
\nrealized that the information does not come from me, it
\ncomes from God (or the Higher Intelligence), I am only a
\nchannel for the information to flow. I am a channel that
\nGod has created to serve the world. Because that is what I
\nam here for, when I am serving, I feel positive energy, and
\nI feel happy.<\/p>\n
I have learned that my life purpose is to serve, and I
\nthink this is applicable to everyone. This is what God
\nwants me to learn, this is also what God wants you to
\nlearn. You will only feel truly fulfilled once you realize
\nthis truth. “Your life purpose is to serve”. I am sure you
\nhave heard that “If you seek happiness for yourself, it
\nwill always elude you, if you seek happiness for others,
\nyou will find it for yourself.” I know this is why every
\ntime I finish an article, I feel so happy, because I know
\nthat my article is going to benefit thousands of people,
\nand it is going to change the world to some small extent.
\nMaybe 90% of people will not take any action after they
\nread my articles, this is the nature of human beings, but I
\nknow as long as they read them, their awareness will be
\nexpanded, and they will see a difference in the long run.
\nFor that less than 10% of people who do take action, I know
\nmy words are going to change their lives for the better.
\nWhat a great thing I am doing! I am proud of it. I feel
\nvery happy about it.<\/p>\n
So starting from today, find ways to help other people.
\nFind some way to serve. You will get addicted to it,
\nbecause it is so enjoyable helping others. Your help is
\ngoing to change people’s lives.<\/p>\n
I often receive emails from my subscribers asking me for
\nhelp. Can you imagine how happy I am after I\u2019ve answered
\ntheir questions? I know that this person’s life is going to
\nchange for the better just because of my words. How
\nwonderful that is!<\/p>\n
Here is a secret I want you to know…<\/p>\n
The person who benefits the most is not the one you give
\nservice to, but yourself. You may find it sounds strange,
\nbut this is true, and it is governed by the universal law
\nof cause and effect. Anything you cause others to
\nexperience will come back to you, and multiplied. If you
\ncause others to experience love, you will find more love in
\nyour life; if you cause others to have wealth, you will
\nhave more in your own life; if you cause others to succeed,
\nyou are guaranteed to succeed. This is the law of the
\nuniverse, and it never fails. So, whatever you want to
\nexperience in your life, cause others to experience it
\nfirst. This is the most powerful way to attain your own
\ndesires, and the easiest way to achieve happiness.<\/p>\n
By Song Chengxiang<\/p>\n